When I found out that my husband was cheating, he automatically made it about himself by throwing the blame on me, and the sad part about it was that I truly believed that it was my fault for a moment.

 He said I was broken. 

 Over the years, I've been in a few relationships after my engagement of 11 years, to a man I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. Even though the other men I've started new relationships with were all different individuals with different faces, they all had similar character traits.