He said I was broken. 

I say I'm two people, and I'm two people because of you, now let me say this, don't believe and allow what a toxic immature man says determine who you are, see a toxic man is a narcissist. His goal is to make you doubt yourself and question yourself, to the point where your self-esteem becomes so low that you believe you are broken and not good enough, to the point where you isolate yourself from family and friends, without any motivation to do nothing. 

Ladies, there is nothing wrong with getting your heart broken, it happens, and it happens to the best of us; it's what you do after the heartbreak that matter; it's you saying to yourself, I'm not going to let him win, and move on with your life. When I say move on, I'm not talking about moving on to another relationship with someone new. I'm talking about finding you, taking time to find that beautiful, strong black woman you once were.

Rediscover yourself, find new hobbies, go to the gym, take an art class, stimulate your passion and drive, and before you realize it, that broken heart will no longer be broken; it will be a thing of the past, and you will become stronger and wiser, and you will radiate beauty inside and out, and the next relationship you decide to get involved in, you will take no shit. 

Shit will smell like shit, and his ass will be the toilet paper you wipe your ass with because, at this point, you've been through so much in your last relationship, you will have the strength to say, "This is not for me, there will be no repeats, and I'm no longer interested in unhealthy people. Bye!". 

The moment you speak up and demand to be respected and nip that situation in the bud is the moment you take your power back, and there is no stopping you from this point on; you have now found the inner strength to yourself. Your self-confidence has now turned you into a bougie diva! You will no longer tolerate nonsense from no one male or female, not even your boss. And ladies, let's not forget to keep our faith and stay in prayers because all things are only possible through Jesus Christ, our savior; without him, nothing is possible.

And There She Is! The Phoenix.

My Beautiful Black Queen!