*Names have not been changed to protect the innocent because they're all guilty. And I got receipts for EVERYTHING in this post.

So when I wrote about my story, my truth, I decided to share it on social media because I felt it was time for my story to be told. I also shared that I was getting a divorce for the entire world to see. This has been my very private space, and as everyone knows, I'm a very private person. I don't particularly like sharing what's going on in my life, but I felt like it was time to stop hiding and to start sharing more about myself. 

That post was difficult to write, but it was just time. This post, while a bit easier comes with receipts as I'm sharing screenshots of our messages together (Erica = Erika (before I knew the correct spelling of her name and I haven't messaged her since October 2020 so no need to change it), J for Jerk = Jerrell).

I GOT RECEIPTS

After sharing my story, I got a few messages asking about Erika Cepero. Why would she want to be with someone who was married? Why would my "husband" want to date a swinger? Why would he want to leave his kids for someone such as her? And many more questions that I'm going to try and answer here in this post and try to keep my name-calling down to a minimum. 

So let's get started. First. What do I know about Erika Esther Cepero? 

I can honestly say that I don't know much about her besides what she told me. Everything else would be me just guessing. I do know that she's an Uber/Lyft driver. Does she have another job? That I can't say for sure. So how did I come to find out about her? Here goes.

I first found out about Erika when a friend of mine saw my husband Jerrell Fuller sitting in her car, and both of them laughing. They looked more than friends according to the friend who saw them, so I decided to ask him about her. He claimed that they were just friends and he was helping her out with her car. Apparently, something was wrong with it, and he was helping her. She also just wanted a ride to grab some marijuana, and he was simply giving her a ride. He left that night claiming that he had forgotten his wallet at her house, so he needed to go and get it. 

Fast forward a few days later, and he was once again at her house, so this time I decided to go over there and confront them both. I drove up and knocked on her door, and when she came to the door, I simply asked: "Are you sleeping with my husband" to which she replied, "Who's your husband? I've slept with many married men". She said it with such a straight face that I was initially shocked. I repeated what she said, "You've slept with many married men?" and she said, "Yes, I'm a swinger." There was no remorse, no sense of guilt, absolutely nothing, she was fine telling me that she was ok sleeping with my husband and many married men. 

It was just too much for me. My cousin was sitting in the car, and I shouted out to her, "this bitch said she's a swinger and has slept with many married men." By then, we were causing a scene, and she then invited us into her home so that we could sit down and discuss things rationally. How do you discuss things rationally with a woman who's deliberately AND KNOWINGLY sleeping with your husband? I had no idea, but anyway, we accepted her offer and went into her house. There he was, sitting in her living room as though things were "fine," as though they weren't having a sexual relationship, as though he wasn't about to throw away 15 years of marriage. 

After our confrontation in her home, I told my husband to pack his shit and get the fuck out of our home and to go and live with her. He was still claiming that they were just friends. However, even to this day, he still denies being with her. I also told her that he'll be bringing his stuff there with her, to which she responded that he "couldn't live with her." Alrighty-then. 

I decided to go back to her house that night and chat with her woman-to-woman. I know all about the girl's code. The rule of thumb is to never EVER sleep with a married man or a man who has a girlfriend, but married men are the worse since there's a commitment, a vow between his wife and God to honor, respect, etc. A married man with children, especially a younger child, is even worse. We sat and talked for over an hour (of which I have that conversation recorded), where she told me that we could have been "friends," and we could have all 3 of us been together. I knew deep down it would never happen, but I let her think what she wanted to. I told her she needed to end the relationship with my husband because whatever he was telling her was a lie since he was telling me something completely different as well.

She said she'd talk to him, but I imagine their conversation went a little differently because she wouldn't answer her phone or respond to texts until I once again told her that I'd be over at her house again and to hell with what her landlord thought about her. 

Here's how our conversation went down after he went back to her house.

Erika is immoral, has no sense of right or wrong, or maybe she does but doesn't see a problem with breaking up a woman's home. Taking a father away from his children etc. It's all good and fine with her until, of course, it happens to her. What goes around comes around, and karma is going to bite them both in the ass.  

My last conversation with her was on October 14, 2020.

So the other question was, what about Jerrell? 

He denied being in a relationship with her and still does to this very day, as I write this May 19, 2021. According to him they met sometime around July and started sleeping together in August, but it was just sex. So why did he request marriage counseling, I'm not entirely sure, but I did ask him if he was going to be honest and keep it 100% in counseling to which he agreed. However, I could sense the lies and put a stop to them. He's always been a manipulator, telling a side of the story to make himself look and sound great. 

He spent Thanksgiving, slept over on Christmas Eve, and spent Christmas morning with us where he bought gifts for everyone, including me (diamond earrings, perfumes, etc.), spent the day with our youngest for her birthday to make things as normal as possible, even going out to dinner as a family for her birthday. Still, whenever I've asked about Erika, the answer is always the same. They're not together. 

He's been visiting our home almost every single day, spending hours late into the night. Whenever he showed up, he was wearing his wedding ring, buying flowers, and even decided to take me out for our anniversary, but it was all a lie.  This is how the mind of a manipulator works; for example, as far back as March 2, 2021, I asked if they were still "friends," and this was his response. So I took him at his word.

On March 5th, we spent the weekend in the Rocky Mountains with the kids; we shared a bed, had an amazing time as a family, and even had a heartfelt conversation where he admitted that he still loved me. Then, on March 19th, after a heated disagreement, I came home to find roses.

Anyway, we celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary on May 6th, and he came by and took me out for an early dinner at 4pm, because according to him, "he was up at 5am and was tired, and thought an early meal would be better. NOTICE THE DATE ON THE PHOTO ALONG WITH THE WEDDING RING I TOLD YOU HE ALWAYS WEARS WHEN HE'S AROUND ME.

A few days later, I found out that they were indeed living together, and once again, he DENIED IT. I'm at a point in my life where I'm tired of deceit, and I'd rather live a life without it and be happy than be unhappy with someone who constantly lies to me. 

I tried working on my marriage, but how can you work on a marriage with someone who consistently lies and cheat and doesn't have the ability to do otherwise? I've given lots of chances as told in my other post, but sometimes enough is just enough.

Erika Esther Cepero and Jerrell Fuller have both been deceitful and are living a lie. She's with a married man thinking that it's all ok and that God would "forgive her." He's living with her (because I kicked him out, so he had nowhere else to go), but he's also lying to her, letting her believe that he's faithful and she's the only one in his life while asking for marriage counseling and wanting to work on his marriage. 

Until they both realize that the way they met was not the way God wanted them to meet, they will never be truly happy together. Jerrell has been refusing to be served because he doesn't want to pay child support or alimony (or not sure what his other reasons are, maybe he doesn't truly want to be with Erika), so as of now, they're both living immoral lives.